Bedroom Romance: How to Turn Up the Temperature this Valentines Day

A soppy card, a bunch of red roses, maybe a slap up dinner in town or a takeout for two. If your Valentines Day looks pretty samey year in, year out it might just be time to change things up– and that doesn’t have to mean grand gestures and credit crushing expenses.

When it comes to romance there’s only one room in the house that counts, yet it’s often the most neglected and, let’s be honest, the least ready for romance. If a sad, untidy and unloved bedroom has you feeling less than amorous, if the inconvenience of finding babysitters means that a night away is well and truly off the V Day cards, or if you’d just like to bring a little romance into your bedroom on a more regular basis, read on for our guide to injecting a touch of passion into the boudoir.

The best ways to make a bedroom romantic every day

So, what are we working with? A worn out mattress? A chairdrobe (if you’ve got one you know what we’re talking about)? A bedroom that shouts functional and doesn’t even know the meaning of the word romance? It might be time for an overhaul.

Romantic room decoration for couple nights every night

Is your room bland and boring? Whites and greys aren’t really conducive to romance so why not switch it up? Next time you decorate, opt for rich, deep jewel-like colours instead. While red is the obvious choice, forest greens, indigo blues and plummy purples can also give your bedroom a sensual feel. When theming the room think gothic romance bedroom décor or Japanese boudoir, complete with lacquered furniture, wall murals, textured fabrics and perhaps even just a touch of black.

Simple changes for a sensual setting

If a complete overhaul isn’t possible for you, there are easy changes you can make to create a romantic retreat for two without breaking the bank. Lighting is absolutely key to the feel of a room so be sure to swap out those bleak overhead spots for plenty of dim, warm lamps. Sometimes changing bulbs to a softer glow is all that’s needed; look for warm white or, if you’re smart home enabled, dimmable and colour-changing bulbs. In addition, consider the art in your room. Do those family photos put you in the mood for love? Probably not! Swap them out for inspiring images of your honeymoon destination (real or dream) or for the kind of soft abstract art you might find in an upmarket boutique hotel.

Choosing things to make a room romantic

When buying accessories for a romantic bedroom, focus on the tactile and sumptuous. Bedding that feels beautiful, pillows that pile up to make sitting in bed comfortable, bedside lamps that cast a candle-like glow. Steer away from cheesy heart motifs and red and white colourways which can look childish and instead seek out grown up romance. Larger purchases, like furniture, should help you to disguise everyday practicalities so you can focus on each other without thinking about the pile of washing waiting to be put away or the blinking lights of your laptop. A large wardrobe like the Dorsten two sliding door wardrobe can hide a multitude of sins as can an ottoman storage box.

Choosing the ideal bed for romance and comfort

That creaky old bed you’ve had for twenty years probably hasn’t got you feeling all that romantic. Our quick guide to beds and mattresses for a couple’s bedroom could help inject a dose of passion into bedtime.

A bed frame that’s central to your romantic theme

Buying a new bed frame might strike you as a less than romantic task but the bed you choose is absolutely central to your romance resolution. Working together to pick a bed you both love is all part of the fun too, ensuring you end up with a piece that means something to both of you. Make a day of bed shopping with lunch for two before you shop and a cocktail once the shops close. And the bed itself? Make it as large as is practical for your room and opt for a frame upholstered in a deep coloured velvet with a vintage vibe. The Hypnos Luxurious Earth 05 divan bed set, available in a range of glorious velvet tones, is ideal, featuring a wraparound headboard for just-the-two-of-us snuggling.

Beds that help take your room from practical to passionate

Thinking about storage might not put you in the mood for love but neither does a room full of clutter. There’s nothing like a messy bedroom to send the moment up in smoke. With an ottoman bed all that squabble-causing chaos can be easily swept away, and in seconds too. Lifting easily to reveal spacious storage, an ottoman bed, like the glamorous Fitzgerald upholstered bed frame, can help to keep your eyes on the prize (rather than the dumbbells he insists on leaving in the middle of the room).

Mattresses for happier couples

If you’d love to spend more time in bed (whether together or alone) but you’re just not feeling it, the problem could lie in your mattress. A mattress that’s old, worn out, broken, or that simply doesn’t suit you can make the idea of taking things to the bedroom less than appealing. If it’s time to upgrade, choose a mattress that will suit both of you, no matter how different your needs with the help of a Bensons for Beds bed expert and our sleeppro® system. The right mattress should tempt you into bed with its ideal combination of support and comfort, but if you really can’t agree on what makes a mattress perfect, all is not lost. A zip-and-link mattress is the dream solution for couples who have different bed requirements, allowing you to mix and match mattress comfort levels for a bed you’re both excited to fall into.

Make your room romantic for that special occasion

With Valentine’s Day just around the corner you’re probably looking for some bright ideas to take to the bedroom. So just how can you make sure that your room is ready for romance when the big night comes?

Decorate a room for a romantic night

Ready your room for love with a quick pre-date night overhaul. Cheap and cheerful changes, such as candles, can help make the bedroom you’re bored of feel new and exciting. We’re not suggesting filling the place with rose petals (though, let’s be honest, we all kind of love a petal-strewn bed) but a few simple accessories can make all the difference, and earn you brownie points too. Fresh flowers, for one, can change the entire feel of a room and ensure that your partner knows just how thoughtful you are, while draping the bed and chairs with soft blankets and cushions can make a night in feel truly indulgent, creating that luxe hotel room vibe.

Tempt your love with a bedroom that speaks to their senses

When prepping your bedroom for a romantic night in it’s important to think in all five senses. In addition to making sure that your boudoir looks wonderful make an effort to create a soundscape, with music especially chosen for romance, too. And as well as putting your favourite love songs on low (and don’t forget to invest in Spotify Premium so you can skip the ad blast), light a scented candle or give your room a spritz with a floral musk room spray for a sensual scent. Finally, make sure that your bed is loaded with fabrics that feel lush against the skin and invite you to climb under the covers…

Invest in bedding that makes your heart pound

Take a look at your bedding right now. Does it scream romance? Or does it whisper ‘on offer and we needed some new sheets’? You can’t be expected to get thoroughly in the mood, and neither can your partner, if your bedding isn’t on point. Now’s the ideal time to make sure your duvet is fluffy and your pillows are plump. And to invest in lovely duvet covers, pillow cases and throws in tactile fabrics and beautiful, grown up designs. Florals are always a winner, and when it comes to fabrics, silks and linens will make your bed feel expensive and entirely tempting too. Not sure where to start? Plain bedding in a statement colour can be layered up with pillows and blankets in complementary shades for sophisticated sensuality.

Bedroom romance: our top tips for a romantic night in

Ready for romance? Our hints and tips for a Valentine’s night to remember can help turn you into a Lothario to be reckoned with. And they’re not just good for February 14th. Keep these ideas in hand for any evening that requires a touch of enchantment.

• Make time: date night shouldn’t be a hurried affair. Turn off your laptop, switch phones to silent, refuse to answer the door and make an agreement to keep this night about the two of you and the two of you only
• Set the mood: being prepared may not sound all that romantic but neither is a last minute tidy ‘round or a desperate search for the scented candles. Clear away the debris of the day and set the scene with music and lighting before date night begins to avoid spoiling the mood
• Book a babysitter: when you become parents it’s easy to forget what life was like as a couple who were allowed to be spontaneous. Bring back a little of that just-us fun by shipping the kids off to grandma’s house, ensuring that your night alone goes off without badly timed interruptions
• Think food: though you might be tempted to skip straight to dessert, a romantic dinner à deux is a must. Keep the steak out of the bedroom (because there’s nothing sexy about dinner trays) but don’t be afraid to take dessert and a bottle of fizz upstairs once the mains are scoffed
• Indulge in cocktails (but not too many): a specific cocktail can bring back memories of a special evening. Whether it’s something you sampled on holiday or a signature drink from your favourite bar why not teach yourself to make a cocktail you both love? Beware of overindulging though, one too many and the night could end abruptly, and messily
• Start in the bathroom: the bedroom might be the centre of romance but the bathroom can be a close second. Turn down the lights, fill a bath with plenty of scented bubbles and invite your partner to sink in and relax. It’s the kind of touch that shows you really care
• Take it right through to breakfast: who doesn’t hate bringing things to an abrupt close? The cold light of day doesn’t have to mean the end of romance. Turn date night into date morning with a lazy breakfast in bed
• Make every day Valentine’s Day: who says Valentine’s should only be once a year? Nothing says I love you like romance that happens every day, every week and every month. Treat your partner to a special night in whenever the mood strikes to help keep the magic alive

Make your room romantic with Bensons for Beds

If it’s going to take a bit more than just a vase of roses to help your bedroom to bring the heat, it’s probably time for a visit to your nearest Bensons for Beds showroom. Not only can our friendly and approachable staff aid you in choosing the ideal bed for you and your partner, they can guide you through our complete range of bedroom furniture, helping you to turn your master suite into a room made for love.

And since money worries won’t induce the right type of passion in any couple, we’re happy to be able to offer a range of payment options, including Klarna’s Pay in Three, to help give you one less thing to think about.

To place an order or for help furnishing your newly romantic bedroom, call into your local Bensons for Bed store or call our team on 0808144 6160.